Finding the Right Match

Many people use dating websites to meet others and it’s a great way to interact from the comfort of your home. You can choose a general site or one keyed to your own interests such as Christian Mingle to narrow the field to those who share your personal beliefs. That being said, as in all walks of life you have to remember that just because someone says something it doesn’t mean it’s true. If you’re new to the scene of online dating here are some tips to play it safe:

If you’re planning to use a dating site look for discounts before you subscribe. For example, you can get a Christian Mingle coupon before you join and save on your registration fee.

Don’t give out too much personal information. Keep your address and other key pieces of information private until you’re sure the person is legitimate.

Meet in a neutral place. When you’re ready to meet your online friend make sure it’s in a public place. A coffee shop is ideal as they are usually centrally located and you can leave quickly if something feels off.

Trust your instincts. If something doesn’t feel right, don’t stay just to be polite. Follow your gut feelings and play it safe.

Let someone know where you’re going, who you’re meeting, and when you expect to be back. Tell them you’ll call when you get home, and follow through. If your date wants you to go somewhere else with them make sure to call you’re safety person first so they know where you are.

If you like the person you’ve met do some research before your next date. Don’t just do a general search, but consider using a verification website to make sure they are who they claim.

Continue to meet in public or with friends until you’re satisfied the person is legitimate. In addition, keep your financial information to yourself. If they ask for money or claim a sudden hardship it’s usually a red flag, so make sure you contact your attorney before loaning money or making a major life change with a new person in your life.